Afterwards we returned to Luis' apartment and got ready for our journey home. Our taxi arrived at 3pm and luckily we had a quick trip to the airport. So quick in fact that we were able to check in for an earlier flight to Hong Kong. I wouldn't usually comment on the flight, but the landing was eventful at Hong Kong to say the least. We had a really bumpy approach and just as we were about to land the pilot aborted the landing and powered off for another try! This in itself is unnerving, but another passenger in the row beside us started to have a panic attack. He was a big chap and as he was just across the isle from the emergency exit I was worried that he might make a break for it! He was obviously trying to calm himself down with some flexing and stretching, but he was certainly unnerving the two very small stewardess' sitting by the emergency doors! Thankfully we landed on the next bouncy approach, but this poor chap was still showing signs of stress as we taxied to our stand! At least our BA flight back to London was less eventful and we arrived ahead of schedule at 0432 am at the new terminal 5 where my parents met us to take us home.
So what are my impressions of the Philippines? Well, it is very American in outlook, but that's no surprise. It is a mixture of modern and traditional, rich and poor, but again this is no surprise as many developing countries are similar. What makes the Philippines stand out are three things; first its people. There is always a smile and a "good morning Sir/Madam" from everyone you meet, from the waiter at your table to the security guard outside the bank. It is not forced or insincere, but genuine and warm, and it makes you feel good inside that there are still places in the world, where despite everyday problems, people still have time for the pleasantries.
Second is the sense of family. The family bond is very strong and this stands out whenever any gathering takes place. The families are usually large - four or more children is common. Cousins, nephews and nieces are seen on a frequent basis. Large, regular family gatherings are common place and nothing is too much trouble for a family member, however distant by blood or marriage. If you need something all you need do is ask someone within the family, they will know someone, somewhere able to help or direct you to someone else who can. It is quite remarkable and something we seem to have lost in our country.

Thirdly, its food. We have never eaten so well or so much on any of our travels. There is an association between the people and their food. They go together - one cannot be separated from the other. Each meal is large and shared with as many friends or family as possible. Between meals one has to take 'meryenda'. This can be a light sweet snack, but could equally be as large as the lunch or dinner that follows. Our party experience will stick in my mind for a long time. To feed 80 people there were 5 roasted pigs and a whole calf, not to mention chicken and veg and rice and rich sweets! I am amazed that almost all the people we met were short and slim, with all they eat how can this be!!!
We have met some wonderful, charming, generous people, who have gone out of their way to entertain, feed and host us during our stay. We have never met these people before, but they have already become good friends, not just acquaintances.
It is unfair to single out individuals, but a special mention of thanks must be made to Tony and Bella, Romon, Larry, Gerry, Luis and Annebelle. All of these people have been tremendous in all sorts of ways and our sincerest thanks go to them all. We hope to be able to return the compliment if ever they come to our cold, wet shores!
Finally, thanks to Lolo George. It was his suggestion that we come to the Philippines so he could
show and share with us all that he has been telling us about during our many travels together. I know that he is much loved and sorely missed by all of his extended 'family', which was all too evident when we shared all those magical family get togethers. We look forward to our return trip - perhaps for the next birthday party?



















































